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8 Tips For Giving The Gift of Orgasm this Holiday Season

Don’t get them something. Get them off instead.

Pamela Madsen
3 min readDec 1, 2020
Image by Khusen Rustamov from Pixabay

What gift do you really want? Is it really that new sweater or tie? If you’re honest with yourself, would the answer be to feel sexual arousal again, or to have some kind of ramped up and new sexual experience? What if all you want for Christmas is an orgasm? You wouldn’t be alone.

So how do you give the gift of arousal and orgasm to yourself or to your partner? It’s about bringing in the toys, ideas, and accessories that you need to turn on and get it on! Plus, I have some really good basic ideas of things to add to your gift list.

1. Get Messy!

When it comes to sexual pleasure, whether it is male-bodied persons or female-bodied persons, make sure that you bring lots of lube to the party. My favorite products are Sex Butter and Sliquid Natural Intimate Lubricant. You just can’t have too much lube when you are talking sexual pleasure. Be generous.

2. Change Positions!

Consider bringing in a new piece of play furniture and see things from a new perspective! I love The Liberator! These pieces can bring a new sense of adventure to your sex life and can be easily stored. New positions bring new possibilities and these pieces can inspire a lot…

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Pamela Madsen
Pamela Madsen

Written by Pamela Madsen

Fearless Sexuality Educator, Writer & Advocate for a woman’s relationship with her whole self. Sensuality Retreats Around the World.Learn more backtothebody.org

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