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How to Have Amazing Sex with a Woman

Pamela Madsen
2 min readOct 16, 2020

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You really need to know this.

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Everyone it seems wants sex tips, sex hacks, how to make love better. How to keep the hot in relationships. How to turn a woman on. People come to me every day wanting to know “the secret.” Here it is: Desire is the real female orgasm.

Desire is the real female orgasm.

I hate to disappoint, but the psychology of female desire has very little to do with sexual prowess. If she can’t feel your desire, she will probably not be inspired to have sex with you.

It does take effort, but if you want her to desire having sex with you, then make her feel like she’s desired by you.

Use all your tools. Your words, your presence and attention, your actions, and your body.

Women want you to really want them. How can you show her that you desire her? Use all your tools. Your words, your presence and attention, your actions, and your body.

Women need attention.

Do you think you have her already? Put that idea on the shelf. Women are filled with shifting energy. Women need attention. Show her that you care about her pleasure.

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Pamela Madsen
Pamela Madsen

Written by Pamela Madsen

Fearless Sexuality Educator, Writer & Advocate for a woman’s relationship with her whole self. Sensuality Retreats Around the World.Learn more backtothebody.org

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